Louis Pompilio

Louis W. Pompilio

Monday, August 11th, 1941 - Monday, May 4th, 2020
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Lou Pompilio, a lifelong New Jerseyan who was passionate about everything he did – be it working in real estate, playing the tables in Atlantic City, finding the best pizza or celebrating another weekend with his family -- died May 4 at Philadelphia’s Thomas Jefferson University Hospital. He was 78. The cause of death was complications from COVID-19.

Louis Walter was born to Ziggy and Dorothy Pompilio in Plainfield, N.J. in 1941. He attended the city’s public schools, including Plainfield High School, where he met his future wife. Patricia Rocco initially balked at this known Casanova’s attempts to woo her, but his natural charisma and determination got him the girl. The couple married in 1966, launched two daughters into the world, and were devoted to each other until her death in 2014.

An accident put Lou on the road to business success. He was working full-time as a barber when he broke his leg while playing baseball. A friend suggested he attend real estate school since he needed to be off his feet. He did, and soon found that sales suited him. He left the barber shop, joining an existing company before branching out on his own. (It was all for the best, Pat often said, because Lou was a terrible barber. He trimmed his daughters’ hair – poorly -- when they were growing up. He was more interested in dramatically snipping the air than cutting hair.) Lou was still working full-time as broker at Century 21 Louis Pompilio in Scotch Plains at the time of his death.

Lou’s enthusiasm for life was infectious – which made him a good salesman, a great entertainer and a fabulous companion. Every holiday gathering featured piles of food and included not only friends and family but an assortment of strangers he’d met recently, be they potential customers or folks he’d encountered on a train ride. He was the consummate host, ensuring glasses were never empty and plates were always full. He loved hearty eaters. After getting to know one potential son-in-law over a crab dinner, he remarked, “I like that kid. He could eat a napkin.”

Despite working long hours, Lou was always there for the big events in his daughter’s lives – dance recitals, softball games, school assemblies. He made even the most mundane things fun. His daughters loved driving with him; he’d hop out of the car at red lights and dance or shout greetings to every pedestrian they passed. He would make sudden turns as if trying to evade another driver. He’d explain that he’d long been chased by two girls who were in love with him. When his daughters would look at the vehicle behind them, it would inevitably be a truck - with a male driver. “They’re in disguise,” he’d assure them.

Someone once told Lou that it was a shame he’d never had a son. His reply: “Are you crazy? No way. I love my girls.”

Lou brought the same sense of fun to his relationship with his granddaughters – Fiona, Luna and Penelope Savarese - a.k.a. “little people.” He’d dance because it made them laugh; sit for facials and pedicures when they played spa; sneak them the sugary treats their parents tried to monitor; pretend to be surprised when they pulled a prank on him. In some ways, he too looked at the world through a child’s eyes: He moved to bucolic Warren 30 years ago yet was still excited every time a deer walked through his backyard.

Lou loved summer vacations to Wildwood; family poker tournaments that lasted ‘til the early morning hours; every dog that crossed his path; all New York sports teams; any movie project connected to Scorsese, Pacino or De Niro; a good joke or a bad one; singing loudly – and incorrectly -- along to his favorite songs including anything by Elvis, Frank Sinatra or Bobby Darin; the childhood friends he spoke to daily, including Chester Puri and Joey Caruso; the co-workers who adored him and happily spent hours with him off-the-clock. He was the guy who always picked up the check, was quick with a quip, always willing to help anyone in any way he could. Everyone considered him their best friend.

He was larger than life in many ways – “I want to live to be 100,” he said more than once -- which is why so many people who knew and loved him can’t imagine life without him.

Lou is survived by two daughters and two sons-in-law, Natalie Pompilio and Jordan Barnett, Tricia Pompilio and Vincent Savarese, all of Philadelphia; his three grandchildren; his sister, Connie Capua, of Palm Coast, FL.; a large cat named D.J. in honor of Derek Jeter; and too many friends and relatives to list. All take comfort in imagining him reunited with Pat, his wife of 47 years; his parents and other family members; and his dear friends, including Al Brick and Opie Brinson. Wherever they are, they’re playing cards and eating well. They probably greeted him with, “Louie! What took you so long? It’s not a party without you.”

Lou’s family will not be holding a memorial service immediately because of the continuing threat brought on by the deadly coronavirus/COVID-19. Instead they hope to gather in New Jersey in August, when Lou would have celebrated his 79th birthday.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to Thomas Jefferson University Hospital’s “COVID-19 Better Together Fund” at

From Natalie and Tricia: We will be forever grateful to the doctors, nurses and staff at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital who took such great care of our father in the last month of his life. They went above and beyond every day and ensured we were with him when he died. In the final hour at Dad’s bedside, we called friends and family members so they could say good-bye and played his favorite songs, including Frank Sinatra’s “My Way;” Barry Manilow’s “Can’t Smile Without You;” Kenny Rogers’ “Through the Years;” Chris Cornell’s “Ave Maria;” Elvis’ “You’ll Never Walk Alone;” and Bobby Vinton’s “Roses Are Red.” We have no doubt that if Dad had beaten this, he would have invited everyone from Jefferson to his house for a huge party. They deserve such a tribute.
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Martha Reading

Posted at 01:23pm
I am so very sorry that Lou has died. I first met Lou in 1992 when he listed my house for sale. Fast forward a few years and my husband and I joined his real estate team. Lou and my late husband spent many Sunday afternoons together at the office ostensibly to man the phones, but actually to watch whatever football teams were playing. They so enjoyed spending time together.
It was clear that he loved his daughters beyond measure! I remember him being so excited when he became a grandfather. One summer as he was preparing for their family vacation at the Shore he was upset because he hadn't been able to find pails and shovels for his girls. I told him I would find some. When I brought the pails and shovels to him you would have thought I gave him a million dollars. In his mind those pails and shovels were the key to his granddaughters having fun at the beach. He adored them, which was also evident by how many photos of them he put up in his office, even on the back of his office door so when he was sitting at his desk and the door was closed he could see the loves of his life. Lou was a generous and caring man. He will be missed by me and so many people. May his memory be a blessing upon all if us who loved him.

Marlene Brinson Gorel

Posted at 08:17am
That was a beautifully written tribute! Louis was fun loving, carefree and had a heart of gold. He and Opie are surely playing cards and asking Fran to cook them something! Such wonderful memories. My condolences to his family and to all who knew him. Rest in peace. Here's a picture from 2012 with my brother, Opie, Louis, Berlin, Frenchick, Nevers and Caruso. They all kept in touch over the years and that is so special.

Gwen Crews

Posted at 01:00pm
My sincere condolences to the Pompilio Family. The memories you have of your Dad are so awesome that you have a virtual treasure chest to cherish and look through for the rest of your lives. What a comfort that will be to begin teary and end up laughing like crazy at the thought of him jumping out in traffic, singing and dancing! Oh, he’s physically gone but his spirit will surround you and watch over you all for the rest of your lives.
My thanks to Louie for sponsoring a table at our MRS Club of Plainfield’s scholarship fundraiser Jazz Brunch years ago. His support contributed to furthering the education of Plainfield High School seniors.
My prayers of comfort are for you all and your Aunt Connie, my classmate from ‘PHS 68.’ Keep honoring your Dad by passing on his traditions and lively spirit to his grandchildren and other family members. Rest In Peace, Louis, Rise in Glory!
🌹❤️🌹 Gwen Crews - Plainfield

Patricia Rose

Posted at 06:16pm
Life well lived my friend, although to short. Omg you and your Dad Ziggy together up in heaven!! Its going to be one big party!! I can just see your Patty Patty rolling her beautiful eyes. You will be so missed. A long time friend.

Philip & Cari Meltzer

Posted at 08:33am
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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